Whether planning an intimate evening for two, a special night out with friends, or celebrating a milestone occasion, Rochester’s vibrant culinary scene has you covered!
I recently asked the Day Trips Around Rochester community on Facebook and Instagram for recommendations on romantic dining spots. I was looking for places with soft lighting, gentle music, an intimate atmosphere, and fantastic food. The restaurants mentioned in this guide are based on the responses I received, and they showcase Rochester’s romantic spirit and culinary excellence. This is an ever-evolving list, and I would be delighted to add your recommendations anytime! Feel free to leave a comment below.
City of Rochester
- Apogee Wine Bar
- Branca Midtown
- Capri Wine Bar & Restaurant
- Carnegie Wine Cellars
- The Cub Room
- Cure
- Edibles
- Fiorella
- Flight Wine Bar
- Grace & Disgrace
- Leonore’s
- Lento
- Living Roots Wine & Co.
- Mr. Dominic’s at the Lake
- Native
- The Old Toad
- The Owl House
- Pane Vino on The River
- Park Avenue Pub *quiet
- Patron Saint
- Polizzi’s
- The Red Fern
- Redd
- The Revelry
- Roam
- Rocco
- Rooney’s *quiet
- Roux
- Ristorante Lucano
- Tapas 177
- Tournedos Steakhouse
- Velvet Belly
- Vern’s
- Vesper
Monroe County
BRIGHTON
BROCKPORT
BUSHNELL’S BASIN
CHURCHVILLE
EAST ROCHESTER
FAIRPORT
GATES
GREECE
HILTON
IRONDEQUOIT
- Atlas Eats
- The Pasta Villa *quiet
MENDON
PENFIELD
PITTSFORD
SEA BREEZE
SPENCERPORT
WEBSTER
Greater Rochester
BATAVIA
CALEDONIA
CANANDAIGUA
- Bon Ami French Bistro
- COHO Pizza & Wine Bar
- Ferona
- KiX ON MAIN
- Rio Tomatlan
- Rose Tavern at the Lake House
CASTILE
CLIFTON SPRINGS
CUYLERVILLE
EAST AURORA
FARMINGTON
GENEVA
HAMMONDSPORT
HIMROD
KEUKA PARK
- The Mansion at Keuka Lake (Esperanza)
LAKEVILLE
LEROY
LIVONIA
MEDINA
NAPLES
NUNDA
PIFFARD
ROMULUS
STAFFORD
VICTOR
WATERLOO
Surrounding Counties
AUBURN
BUFFALO
CAZENOVIA
LEONARDSVILLE
LOCKPORT
SKANEATELES
TRUMANSBURG
WATERTOWN
WILLIAMSVILLE
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Which are your favorite restaurants for a romantic meal?
This is an ever-evolving list, and I’m delighted to add your recommendations anytime!
I’d love to hear from you—please share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below.
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